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This isn’t MAP related but this is a topic that I have been seeing on my dash a lot lately and I feel like I need to address this.

If you are a victim of CSA, you are not in the wrong for wanting harm to come to your abuser. You have every right to be angry at them.

I am not a survivor of CSA but I am a victim of other forms of abuse and let me tell you, I cannot imagine how horrible sexual abuse must be especially if it occured as a child. I understand what it is like to be angry at your abuser, as I am with mine.

You are still brave and strong, and you deserve to be happy. You are not obligated to forgive your abuser.

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  10. ann-narky said: very true. but it is important to note that an INVALUABLE part of the healing process does involve learning to forgive. the benefits of forgiveness are for you, not your abuser. real growth is impossible without it and you will always be stuck in the pain.
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  • Name: sadie
  • Age: 18 years
  • Location: uk
  • Personality type: intp, chaotic good
hey :v I'm Sadie or Bucky and I'm 18, agender (woman leaning, aka it's complicated as fuck), and probably-lesbian. I'm still figuring things out re: my sexuality so bear with me!

my blog is mainly captain america, but some other fandoms do pop up. i love dogs, animals, and nature in general. I tend to talk a lot in my tags, oops

I have diagnosed BPD, PTSD, and I'm hypersexual. I sometimes post about these things, all triggers tagged for when necessary. If I miss something though please remind me, I'll tag it.

I'm spiritual fictionkin, my kintype is Bucky Barnes from Marvel and I talk about this aspect of my identity semi-often under kintag or kinfo. I tend to have Opinions™ on things (mainly, anti abusive ships) so yeah! but feel free to say hi or something i love talking to people!

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