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lizardskkin:

. Honestly, if you fetishize rape, FUCK you. FUCK. YOU. I don’t give a fuck if it’s your kink, I don’t give a fuck if it’s ~actually consensual~, I don’t give a FUCK if you try your very best to provide trigger warnings. Fetishizing rape goes past triggering, and goes straight into disrespectful. It is degrading, humiliating, and fucking dismissive and disrespectful to actual rape survivors like me. When I look for resources to protect myself, I should NOT be finding porn of it. My rape only happened because my rapist didn’t understand consent, nobody listens to me because people think it was coercive (which they think isn’t rape), and I struggle to talk about my rape because it’s somehow categorized with sex. Thanks for that, assholes.

Dec 29th 2016, 7:29 pm / 4 years ago / 357 notes / from
caps - rape - !!!!! I don't care if you're into bdsm or want to be controlled during sex or whatever kink you have - that's cool I have kinks too but rape should n o t be a kink and it definitely shouldn't be a normalized onea *one it's so disgusting to see so called ~feminists~ saying it's okay to roleplay rape if you find it hot because apparently non-survivors urges are more important than thinking critically about the rape culture we live in and the reasons why women want to pretend to be assaulted and men want to pretend to assault women
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  3. corpse-sanctuary said: @scared-of-this-world exactly
  4. corpse-sanctuary said: if you stay out of peoples sex lives you won’t be triggered sweetie. (-: yeah people put it out there sometimes but do you know how easy it is to avoid seeing a post. block some tags. do whatever but don’t fucking come at someone for something they enjoy. i have been molested and sexually assaulted more than enough times and i DO have a rapekink. i don’t think it’s a coping mechanism in my case, maybe it’s internalized but you have 0 say in what other people enjoy.
  5. corpse-sanctuary said: yall ever think about the rape survivors who HAVE a rape kink???
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